Is there a goal you are trying to reach, but do not know how to make it happen? Is there a transition you would like to complete, but are unsure of the pathway to get there? Is there a change you want to make, but unanswered questions are getting in your way?

Well, you are not alone. As human beings, in most instances, we are loners. We prefer to do things our way, ourselves. As a result, we handle most of our career difficulties alone. Maybe it's because we are embarrassed or believe we are weak. Usually we tackle tough situations without asking for help until we realize that going it alone is unproductive. Then, we request assistance.

But, why does it have to take this long?

THE WEEKLY ACTION CHALLENGE

This week's challenge is to swallow your pride.

Identify one person you either know (or don't know) that can help you overcome a challenge in your career. Pick the person you have been reluctant or scared to contact. Challenge yourself this week and call him or her.

The person you contact may or may not help you. This is not the point. Asking one person for help springs you into action. Action leads to you contacting more people. Action brings results. Waiting until you are ready to act does not.

Pride is compelling. It keeps you strong and focused. Pride can also take you off course. Life is not about reaching your goals alone. There are people out there who want to help you. All you have to do is ask.

So what do you say? You only have one life to live so it might as well be a life you love.