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Current Issue: June 2003,
Issue #50 CHANGE BEFORE YOU HAVE TO |
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Welcome to Surpass Your Dreams. The goal of the newsletter and weekly tips is to help you recognize your potential and surpass your dreams. Included are tips for either transitioning into a career you love, excelling in the career you have now, or creating simplicity in your life.
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Are you enjoying your career? Or, are you ready for a change? Are you waiting for change to happen by itself so you don't have to think about it anymore?
Most people wait for their careers to improve on their own, someday, without input or effort. If any change will do, then feel free to wait, because change will come whether you are driving it or not. But, you cannot expect to be happy with change unless you help to shape it.
Your career will not get better until you make it better. And, it requires your participation.
Sometimes change is necessary. It doesn't have to be a big overwhelming project. It can be manageable as long as you break it into small achievable steps.
Many people wait until they can no longer tolerate a situation before they decide to tackle it. By that time, their situation is so challenging, draining, and frustrating that they are desperate. Do not wait until you are desperate to begin your change because desperation will cloud your judgment.
If aspects of your career do not seem right, address them now. Make a plan and start on it right away. This is your best defense; being pro-active instead of reactive.
So, what do you say? You only have one life to live,
so it might as well be a life you love!
II. TOP WAYS TO MAKE CHANGE IN YOUR CAREER
The corporate world has been a difficult place. Those of you who were laid off have it tough because you may be still searching for work, or you have taken jobs beneath your salary requirements or level of knowledge and expertise.
But, how about those of you who are still working? Many of you have said good-bye to your colleagues and friends at work, sometimes with only a few moments notice. You have had to do your job and theirs. For less money with fewer resources. You are burnt out, tired, and overwhelmed. Maybe your next move is to do something different. Maybe you have had it with the long hours and the way you have seen yourself and others treated. Now, I am not saying everybody should quit your job and change careers just because you have had a bad day at work. I am saying that if you want to, here are some great tips to make it happen.
1. If you are having ANY inklings or intuition or feelings about wanting a change, don't ignore them and hope they'll go away. Embrace them and be curious.
2. See if a small change with your current job does the trick, even if it feels uncomfortable to set new boundaries.
3. If tweaking your current situation doesn't help, realize that career change is a process and not an event. Transforming what you do will not happen overnight, so get going!
4. Explore what it is that you now need and want, before you make any change.
5. As your vision becomes clear, begin talking to people who are doing things you might be interested in - and when you connect with the right person, keep in touch!
6. Prepare yourself to make an investment in a new future - both emotionally and financially.
7. Surround yourself with support mechanisms.
8. Embrace uncertainty as much as you can.
9. Realize that career change represents personal growth, not career failure.
10. It's ok to make a leap of faith.
About the Author: This piece was written by Anne M. Wilkins, MBA, Executive Coach, who can be reached at http://www.evergreencoaching.com Since many of my newsletter subscribers are coaches, this section is for you. It contains tips and techniques
to take your coaching practice to the next level. TOP THINGS YOU CAN CHANGE IF YOU ARE IN A COACHING SLUMP
It happens to all of us. There are times in our practices when we are not as busy as we'd like to be. If it's a bump in the road, do not worry. Things will pick up. But, if not being busy has been around for a while, here are some tips to get you moving again.
1. Rejoice!
2. Market!
3. Don't worry.
4. Organize.
5. Learn something new.
6. Do email.
7. Network.
8. Relax and enjoy yourself.
9. Increase your coaching skills.
10. Learn from this. About the Author: Susan Dunn, M.A., Author of The Resilience Course, The EQ Coach, who can be reached at http://www.susandunn.cc
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You can start to explore your desire for change in a number of ways without letting things brew to the point where you feel your only option is to walk in tomorrow and quit your job or shut down your business. The key is not to put your head in the sand out of fear of change, but to take action, in small steps if necessary.
It may be that your current field and occupation ARE perfect for you, but the particulars of the current setting are not. Try making a list of all the things that you are tolerating with your current work situation. What can you take action on now? What have you been afraid to talk about or bring up with a supervisor? What are your worst fears? What would happen if those fears came true? Oftentimes, changing one or two things about the current situation, including our mindset, can help a lot. For example, what if you just said "no"? Try perfecting your current situation first - and be bold with your experimentation here.
You may need to store up financial resources, get retrained, network with new groups of people, spend time investigating new options. Lots of things to do - so start today!
We all have very busy lives, and yet this process of self-exploration is absolutely necessary. Map out a plan for starting this, including how you will figure out what's NOW important to you. Don't limit yourself at this stage. Visit the web or your library for a list of resources on career assessment. Start with a broad list of potential new avenues - and if it feels overwhelming, just choose a few to focus on first. Don't engage in A to Z thinking. For example, 'This choice might require X, therefore Y.' Find out the facts first, before you begin to cross things off your list. Get clear on what you think you're interested in first, before you go out to the marketplace. The clearer you are, the easier it will be for people to help you.
Introspection is great, but real-life confirmation is even better. And information gathering is not a commitment to a new path. It's just information. You can get it from networking events, alumni associations, industry guides and gatherings, relevant publications, the phone book. You can take classes or volunteer. Test your theories out on real, live people!
Career change is a process of self-questioning, which requires an investment of time and energy. Leaving your current career entirely and doing something else WILL require an investment - either in retraining, additional schooling, perhaps taking a lower paying job or volunteering to get your foot through a new door. Even if you are taking time off, you are making an investment. Make sure you are educated about the cost of your choices and prepared to foot the bill. The more financial resources you have in place, the more comfortable you will feel through the transition.
Seek out supportive friends and family, a coach, trade associations of like-minded people, online communities, and real-live people engaged in what it is you think you want to be doing. See how it feels to connect with these new people. What do you have in common with them? Does it encourage you? Or does it make you wonder about your choice? Go through this part of the process several times. Once you're committed to your path, disengage from any naysayers in your life, if only temporarily.
Remember that you're in a transition, which starts with feelings of loss and disengagement from your past, a middle period of great creativity AND uncertainty, and a new beginning, where your path becomes more clear.
Career change is more and more prevalent. Realize that you're moving to a new way of contributing to the world that reflects the best part of who you are and can be. Your being unhappy and dissatisfied at work is not benefiting anyone, so if it's time for a change, make one!
If you have done as much homework as you can, at some point career change may require you to make a leap of faith. You'll know when you get there!
Get excited when there's a slump because it means a big surge is coming. (Honest!) Keep plugging away, there is good news around the corner.
If you want a successful coaching practice, you must market in every spare moment, and now you have some. Make good use of the time.
Worrying is a waste of time. It exhausts you and accomplishes nothing. Many people are expert worriers and their fears never materialize.
Assuming you've been busy and successful, you probably have papers to file, research to do, email to organize, files to clean off, computers to backup. Do the things you didn't have time for before. Get things in order so when things get busy again, it will be in place and you'll be ready to go.
Great time to learn a new software, read some books, take computer courses, take some marketing teleclasses.
Hopefully as a coach who wants to succeed, you keep email around longer than most. Go back over older ones and get back in touch with people. Remember that it takes most people 7 times to "bite" on an offer. Put your name back in front of them with your offers. Compose a special "touching base" email. Get a good signature, a nice graphic. Make it a little ad, and send it out.
Perfect time to get out there. Check in the newspaper to see what's going on and participate. Join a coaches chapter and network with other coaches.
Use this time to the fullest. Catch up with family matters. Take your mom to lunch. Take your partner on a vacation. Meet your children at their school for lunch. Veg. Putz. Smell the roses.
Take a whole day of teleclasses. Browse other coaching websites for their ezines and information and to see what's out there. Avail yourself of all the free coaching courses available.
How you learn resilience is by going through hard times. Hopefully you entered this slump with reserves--of energy, health, people, and money. If not, learn from it. Coaching is cyclical; learn to save for a rainy day. With the money in the bank, and the 'homework' done, next time there's a slump, you'll be open to take time off or a vacation. Learn to enjoy this, as it is part of the process.
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