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1. A Time For Change
2. Ten Observations About Change
3. Coaches Corner-Change Will Make You A Better Coach
4. Great Resources

I. A TIME FOR CHANGE ?

I was nervous about writing this column until I saw the President's state of the union address on television. I thought that writing about the positive effects of a terrible event would be too controversial. Then I heard President Bush say the following: "None of us would ever wish the evil that was done on September 11th, yet after America was attacked, it was if our entire country looked into a mirror and saw our better selves." I felt like the President was speaking to me and telling me it was ok to write this column.

I am a better person because of what happened in September. I appreciate life like I did not before. I cherish my family, my friends, and my clients more. I take nothing for granted, and am grateful to be alive.

My work life is so much different than it was on September 10th. I had to totally change my business to survive. (Thus, I had to totally change myself.) I had to find ways to fulfill your need for career advice while respecting that you were more fearful and had less money to spend.

I have clients who once said to me they would be devastated if they lost their jobs, and now they are moving into careers they only dreamt about previously. Other clients have used this opportunity to start their own businesses, move into non-profit work, or spend less time at the office and more time at home. They tell me they have never been happier. And, these are moves they would have been too afraid to make before.

I would never take away the pain that the victims families go through each day. But I do want you to think about how this experience has left you in a more positive place. The universe works in mysterious ways. How are you a better person today?

So, what do you say? You only have one life to live, so it might as well be a life you love!

WOULD YOU LIKE TO HAVE PIECE OF MIND?

Choosing whether to stay in your present career or transition into a new career is difficult because you may be unsure what to do next, or where you would begin. Plus, fear about the future can keep you from seeing your situation clearly or asking for what you deserve.

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II. TEN OBSERVATIONS ABOUT CHANGE

1. Change is something that presses us out of our comfort zone.

It is destiny-filtered, heart-grown, faith built.

2. Change is inequitable; not a respecter of persons.

Change is for the better or for the worst, depending on where you view it.

3. Change is uncomfortable.

For changing from one state to the next upsets our control over outcomes.

4. Change has a ripping effect on those who won't let go. Flex is the key.

Even a roller coaster ride can be fun if you know when to lean and create new balance within the change.

5. Change is needed when all the familiar props and practices of the past no longer work.

6. Change is not comforted by the statement 'just hang in there' but with the statement 'you can make it.'

We don't grow in retreat, but through endurance.

7. Change isn't fixed by crying, worrying, or mental treadmilling.

Change is won by victors not victims; and that choice is ours.

8. Change is awkward -- at first.

Change is a muscle that develops to abundantly enjoy the dynamics of the life set before us.

9. Change draws out those poised for a new way.

Change isn't for chickens.

10. Change calls own strength beyond any one of us.

Change pushes you to do your personal best. Change draws out those poised for a new way.

About the Author: This piece was written by Duke Rohe, who can be reached at drohe@pdq.net or at her web-site at http://www.io.com/~jvaughn/duke.htm

DO YOU LOVE YOUR CAREER?

Is your career wearing you out? Are you tired of fear and excuses standing in your way? Would you move forward if you had a place to start?

If you answered yes to any of the above, then working with a coach may be your next move. Many people who have received coaching can now proudly exclaim "I love what I do!"

"The changes I've made for myself have been dramatic. During our time together, I left my nanny position of 9 years and created my own Professional Organizing Company. I was able to do this despite my fears. Deborah and I worked together to pinpoint my skills, talents, and goals and we put them together in a plan that I was comfortable implementing. She understood my hesitation in making the transition, and my fears of both success and failure. My business has a wholeness to it because of Deborah's insight, support and talents." (Kathleen Lott, Director, On Your Behalf, Inc. New York, NY)

Take the first step and visit http://www.surpassyourdreams.com to find out how to get started.

IV. COACHES CORNER

Since many of my newsletter subscribers are coaches, this section is for you. It contains tips and techniques to take your coaching practice to the next level.

THIS MONTH: CHANGE WILL MAKE YOU A BETTER COACH